WowAce

I really like your addon, and it allows changing the order of dd/tank/healer/main-assist etc, but is there some way to change the order of the player (aka myself)?

For example, I want to be always first in raid frames, or always last, or have some specific position (like 4th).

This can be useful so my frame is always positioned in the same place.

While in party it's easy, since you're the only healer, but in raid you always end up at some random position among other healers (in pugs).

Not possible, grid2 uses some blizzard/game code to sort and display the frames,  and the game code does not support  that kind of arrangement.

You could add an extra row to display your player using a custom layout, but then your player will be displayed twice, in the standard position and in your custom defined row.